Sunday, November 29, 2009
when a girl
"if my voice could reach back to the past, i'd whisper in your ear, darling i wish you were here"
9. when a girl says she'll go out with you one day, she made a promise, and she'll always keep it no matter what, because she wants you to be happy. she wishes you would do the same as well.
8. when a girl cries she doesn't want to hear you say that you suck and blame it all on yourself or conversely become angry at her. she wants you to have the resilience to sit beside her and hold her hands while listening, because sometimes she really do have something to say, as insignificant as it may be. there is no greater guilt than one that comes out of knowing that she made you sad because of her own stupid and thoughtless demeanors.
7. when a girl finds the courage to say i love you, it scares her to hear "yeah okay" back, knowing that perhaps, yet again, it's unrequited love. and she will eventually get hurt. nothing can ever scare a girl more than getting hurt by the person she loves.
6. when a girl is sad, she doesn't tell her friends what's wrong. they tell her to tell them, and even if she did, she'll try to make it look like it's her fault, not yours because she doesn't want her friends to get mad at you, or you to look at all bad. she wants everyone to continuously see you as the guy she fell in love with, even if it means lying to the people she care most about.
5. when a girl says she isn't lying to you about anything, she really isn't lying to you about anything.
4. when a girl hears you say i love you, she believes it more than anything. call it innocuous, but she doesn't care. there is nothing that could make her more happier, not even finding the perfect pair of pair of louboutins, than hearing you say i love you.
3. when a girl says she's not mad at you, she really isn't mad at you. and when she says that nothing is wrong, she is never lying. when she's quiet on the other end of the line she is often just tired, and it tires her even more, albeit, with sadness to hear you think that she's mad at you. because most of the times, you're the one person she can't get mad at easily, and what she wants to hear in phone calls is laughter and talking, not silence, not when she's tired, not ever.
2. when a girl says i'm sorry, she means it, more than anything. she will continuously apologize to you, even for something which she knows wasn't her fault, though most of the times, it's never anyones fault, even if it makes her cringe and cry at night because it kills her to see you angry and to not be able to hear you smile or laugh at it and say things will be okay.
1. when a girl says i love you, she means it and she always will
i love you most ardently, 8:39 AM.
